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People often say: True friends are hard to find, the ones who betray you on day might be your 'true friend'. Perhaps, this quote is correct. In the hunt for friends, whether good or bad, there truly, are many conditions and details to look out for, that is, if you are meticulous. Some may brush this off and say: hey, i ain't got a damn for this crap; but who knows, your friends can lead you astray, or onto the correct path. Of course, who doesn't know this old ''dao(4) li(3)''? But, knowing is one thing, carrying it out, is yet another thing.. I personally would be very careful when choosing CLOSE friends, get the word, "close". what about normal friends? well, anyone can be my friend. i have a friend, who was once a gangster, i have a friend who smokes, aren't these my friends? But the term "close friends" doesn't just appear in one day, nor half a year. It appears, mostly, after a year or maybe more. You can have many friends, but they can betray you overnight, leaving you lying there, ragged and astonished... Or they can simply lead you astray... well, at least, that's what i think. But talking about close friends, they simply must fulfill the terms n conditions you, or i set for close friends. I don't choose close friends overnight, i choose them, after one year of interaction. At least, what i do might not be applicable, or nonsensical to others.. but thats the way i do things... I put them through tests, before acknowledging as close friends. Someone might just scold me,''what the hell you talking about, putting people through a test, who do u think u r?'' yup, i m just any single person.. tests, doesnt literally always mean test... However, there's a Chinese saying,"chu(1) wai(4) kao(4) peng(2) you(3).. who can be depended upon? that's where i always ponder upon. One good example of ''test'', is when you r out shopping with your friends. I was, then, when i wanted to look at something, they just walked ahead. but then in china, there were specifically two person, who waited for me at EVERY single place i stopped at. I was touched. This, is then the people i m really looking for. That moment in nan jing lu, would be a memorable n everlasting one.

that night, we were separated from the rest, we talked a lot about our experiences, and i learned a lot about them, and much i told them about myself. It was then, i realized something very important, not only to me, but also, to them. I would not disclose it, but i believe, anyone who reads this should be able to figure it out, if there is, anyone who reads it...lol. Its complicated, yet simple, just one word, friends, can really mean a lot, much as some of my Pri school friends who mean a lot to me; liew,marc,Ly,E.....
Illusionized. Friday, November 10, 2006;10:34 PM